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Good morning my devoted followers. Does anyone actually read this? I've been away the last few days, my bad. To make up today's post will be in detail; girls we're first for this one. Boys take notes, bookmark the link and set it as your background. The topic of fun: Physical Contact.

Girls:

Physical Contact is actually a huge part of all relationships and we don't want to admit it but it can be a deal breaker. My best advice is be honest and open with your guy/girl/whatever. You have to be up front about what you need, want and like. People haven't learned to read minds yet- no really they can't.

If you want him to hold your hand in public or kiss you outside of the bedroom you have to tell him, if you want a nun and a ruler between you two at all times, you need to let him know.

Don't always be the one to make the contact. If you are always the one to touch him, he'll think you don't want him to touch you. Let him be first. TEASING IS GOOD! Be a flirt, so you've been together a while; keep it interesting, flirt like you're not together. Make him need you, make him remember you.

Sometimes less is more. I know on the topic of Physical Contact that is never the answer anyone wants but give me a chance. You can run your fingers gently over his back, just lay your hand on his chest or arm, holding his cheek while you kiss him- - - sometimes this is more meaningful then jumping him or being clingy. Let him know you are thinking about him and appreciate him. Let your hands linger when you touch him. When you are not there he will remember and be thinking about you.

Boys:

Le sigh. Alright starting simple, your girlfriend/boyfriend/whatever wants you to touch them. It can be the little things that mean more and are more of a turn on then the over extravagant ones. Let's break down the implied meanings and possible effects of certain basic forms of Physical Contact.

Holding Hands: This shows possession. When you are out at the mall don't be afraid to hold your girls hand or wrap your arm around her waist. This shows that you two are together and lets everyone else know you're a thing. Also its a way of silent bragging. Show off your girl like you are proud of her.

Cuddle/snuggle: This creates closeness. Watching TV or a movie, let your girlfriend cuddle next to you. You both get to stay warm and it gives her a since of belonging. This is the sensitive/ caring side of a relationship.

Kiss: There are so many kinds. The friendship kiss- just a quick peck to let her know she is awesome. The “I love you” kiss – A passionate kiss that lets her know how you feel. The “I want you” kiss- This is a kiss filled with lust and fire, she'll know what's on your mind if you kiss her like this. She also might gasp. (Note: may result in breathtaking kisses).  The jealous kiss – every guy does this, every girl smiles on the inside at this. The kind of kiss says “HA She's with me.” The break up kiss- this one can break hearts but it can be done without meaning to. It's the empty kiss. Don't just go through the motions, you're kissing someone you care about. It should be worth the effort. The ordinary kiss – just a simple kiss because you can. It has a time and place. Don't let this be all she knows, every girl needs to be kissed different ways. Finally, the “way” a girl should be kissed – with meaning.

Hug: These make girls feel safe and cared about. Make sure you hug your girlfriend  at least once every time you see her. If you don't she may feel like you don't want to get close, this can cause problems in a relationship.

Alright so a friend of mine, yes he's male, informed me that men are very visual learners. For this reason I am including examples of what I consider to be the best examples of the most important forms of kisses. If you don't like the movie choice, I'm sorry. Keep Twilight comments to yourself- I'm not team Jacob or Edward. And Bella looks constipated I'm team Supernatural. <3

So guys, go practice. :)

-Angie out.